VISAS!!!!
We finally FINALLY have our Chinese visas. It was quite the
ordeal. But we made it. I went to the consulate (again) last week to apply for
the visas. I met a wonderful couple that travels quite often to China. The
husband coincidentally used to live in Miami. We had nice conversations. I told them that we used to live in China.
People are surprised when I say that I loved living in China. Who wouldn’t love
that opportunity? I still feel that sense of gratitude and awe when I think
about all I’ve done while there. I explained that we’re adopting. They
suggested I ask for the 10-year visa. I told them that I don’t know if I can
just request it. They said, “Sure you do. Ask for the 10 year visa, it’s the
same price.” So, when it was my turn to be called at the window, the woman
remembered me from the previous time (when I tried to show them Travel Approval
from China and they had no idea what it was) and I told her I would just apply
for regular tourist visas for all of us. 10 years please. J She said, “ok, let me
check with the consul since it’s three of you. Give me half an hour, I’ll call
you again.” I was expecting to stay there quite a few more hours like before.
But within minutes she called me. I sat down and saw our passports in her
hands. She said, “come pick up on Sunday 9:30 am. 10 years!” I was so happy,
all I could say was “YESSS!” lol
So hubby went today during lesson breaks to pick them up.
I can’t believe that in exactly two weeks we’ll be in China. Just hours away from meeting our daughter! It hasn't sunk in yet. We are still busy with work/school. It doesn't feel real. That the school year is actually ending; summer is starting and WE'RE GOING TO GET OUR GIRL!
It's amazing. So surreal.
So hubby went today during lesson breaks to pick them up.
I can’t believe that in exactly two weeks we’ll be in China. Just hours away from meeting our daughter! It hasn't sunk in yet. We are still busy with work/school. It doesn't feel real. That the school year is actually ending; summer is starting and WE'RE GOING TO GET OUR GIRL!
It's amazing. So surreal.
We were supposed to video chat with her this weekend. But unfortunately, her foster sister had to be at school studying for a big exam and we couldn't. I was totally disappointed. We haven't seen her in so long. I hope she's still excited about us. As much as a three year old can understand anyway. I miss her. I desperately want for her to get used to us before being handed over to us. I would like to minimize trauma as much as possible. I do realize that trauma is inevitable. Her little world is about to turn upside-down. She's about to embark on the rollercoaster ride of her life. Everything will happen so fast, full speed. So many different people, sounds, smells... she's being ripped out of everything she's familiar with. All the people she's ever known and loved will be distant. Her culture, her language, foods, everything. All I can do is pray that God is preparing her heart.
I will try to blog as much as possible while in China. I know that it will be very hard to do so and we'll be very tired. But I also know how important it is to document every moment. I'm scared everything will be mashed together and a big blur if we don't. Please do follow along. And please do leave comments. Comments will motivate us at such a trying time. Thank you friends.
